Starting with you

Don’t we all like when the conversation starts with us?  Don’t you feel better when the subject is all about you and what you want?  At times I’m the same way, but if we start down that path this will just be an article about my thoughts on me.  Today I want to start with you and not me.  Today we’re going to make it all about you and how your relationship is going to be better because you’re going to focus for a few minutes on you.  Who do you want in your life and if you have that person in your life, what do you expect of them? Do they know what you expect of them?  Have you ever explained what makes you happy?  Do you know what makes you happy and what type of life you want to live?  Enough questions for now, this is what I need you to do.  Write these things down and decide what makes you happy and then think about if you’re happy or not.  If you’re happy and you need something to change; be that change.  Talk to the person in your life and find what not only makes you happy, but what makes them happy too.  I said that we were starting with you, but it’s not always about us.  Life is all about helping people get what they want, so we can have our needs realized too.  I don’t believe there is a greater feeling in the world than when you’ve helped someone who really needed your help.  Let me know if this made a difference in your life please and remember to be present.